Who’s in Charge?

I had the privilege to student teach in a small town near Lubbock. It was the first time that Tech had sent students to surrounding communities. Joe Wood was the superintendent and was a genuine man of God. He left a much better job in San Antonio because God told him to move to West Texas. I learned so much from him about dedication and integrity.

I loved the system and applied for a job.  When I interviewed for a job, he told me, “I don’t have a job for you, but let’s pray about it.” And we kneeled in his office and did just that. That was the last I heard about the position until Joe invited the four students in our group to a board meeting at the end of student teaching to discuss our experience. He explained the protocol, and then told me, “Jan, you won’t be able to stay for the business meeting since we are voting on hiring you.”

I saw Joe live his faith at church and work, but one of my fondest memories was the night of a band concert. We had revival services at church, and Joe told the band director he needed to schedule the concert after church that evening.

I was helping the band director set up for the concert. We were both first- year teachers, and he went on and on about how inconvenient it was to have the concert at 8:00 in the evening. I will never forget his words, “This is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Who’s running this school anyway, God or Joe Wood?”

Suddenly there was the greatest rumble of thunder and lightning flash that filled the band hall. We both stood in shock, and the band director turned to me and said, “Forget I asked!”

Everything Joe Wood did was God-led, and he made no apologies for his beliefs. He was a dedicated and regular member at his church; he was approachable as a boss: and he was fair as a parent when I taught both his children.  I married and moved on, but I never forgot this incredible man. After a while he moved on to an executive position at a small Baptist college, but I never forgot his witness and belief in an all-powerful God who directed our paths.

Joe passed away in the mid -70s. In the thirty-four years I taught, I worked for some good men, but this man left an impression that’s lasted fifty years. I feel sure that when he reached heaven, “God said, Well done.”

I’ve thought about that question in the band hall several times over the years.  In my life, actions, work, and relationships – who’s in charge? Me? Or God? I challenge you to ask the same question yourself. In the still quiet moment, will you hear the roar of thunder? I long for that affirmation that others can see Jesus in me.

“Let love and faithfulness never leave you;

    bind them around your neck,

    write them on the tablet of your heart.”

Proverbs 3:3 NIV

Let Change Begin with Us

This post has been on my mind for several weeks, and while I know it is controversial, I think it is relevant in today’s turbulent times.

In 1949, Rogers and Hammerstein collaborated on the script and music for the movie South Pacific. A romantic musical, the story centers around two couples from different backgrounds, races, and nationalities who struggle with the fact that they are falling in love. The premise of the story is that people are not born with prejudices, but that society quickly teaches us to be afraid of those who are different from us, whether it is skin color, ancestry, religion, or background. This is highlighted in the controversial song from the movie, “You’ve Got to be Carefully Taught.

When my children were little, our family made friends with a family from West Africa. Their little boy was the same age as our youngest son, so I babysat several times. The incident that stands out in my mind took place on the Fourth of July. The parents had a company picnic, so my husband and I took the children to a chicken drive-through to pick up lunch. I had both boys on my lap in the front seat (a long time before car seats) – one fair, one dark.

 My five-year-old daughter leaned out the window and said proudly, “One of these isn’t our baby!”

The man serving us smiled and replied, “I bet I know which one.”

My daughter was surprised at his reply and said, “You do?”

You see, she had no idea. The boys were just the same  – two babies who played at her house and didn’t clean up after themselves. Her innocent eyes did not recognize color. No one had ever taught her that the boys were different in any way.

Isn’t that the way each of us should see each other?

We have no control over the color of our skin, how our eyes are shaped,  or our genetic makeup. What we do control is the attitudes we form and the lessons we teach our children. We do not have to be indoctrinated by the media. We can move beyond bad experiences if we have been unfortunate enough to have one. A single unpleasant or threatening encounter does not make all encounters bad. We have the option to change our world by realizing that in the eyes of God, all lives matter. There has been enough pain brought on by teaching hate instead of love.

One of my favorite quotes was attributed to Peter Marshall, Chaplain to the United States Senate. “We have prayed and prayed that thou wilt do this and thou wilt do that. Help us to know that we, too, are part of the answer.” Change can happen. I challenge you to let the change begin with us.

 In Acts 10:34-35, Peter declares: “I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism but accepts from every nation the one who fears him and does what is right.” NIV